M1 progress: engine port compiles except pf.c; AF_DIVERT socket family; ifq framework

- compat layer extended through the full BSD API surface pf_ioctl/pf_lb/
  pf_if/pf_norm/pf_table/pf_ruleset/radix/md5/sha2 need (all compile):
  cpumem/counters model, ifaddr/ifg groups, cred view, endian+in6 names,
  NAT46/64, SipHash24, mbuf_list, frag6 helpers, ip6 forward/checksum,
  tcp options/FSM names, taskqueue & sysctl shims (documented in
  docs/porting-notes.md)
- pfsrc/divert_sock.c: real BSD divert(4) as runtime-registered PF_DIVERT=32
  socket family inside the module (sock_register; NPROTO=AF_MAX=45 -> zero
  core patches); divert_packet/divert6_packet wired for pf.c
- compat/pfk_ifq.c: OpenBSD 8.0 ifq framework with priq back end; hfsc and
  fq_codel aliases pending M5 (recorded in feature matrix as pending)
- design + plan updated for the divert decision (user-requested)
- stage-port.sh: single deterministic rename program for headers and .c

module/include/compat/netinet/in.h

@@ -10,4 +10,11 @@
 #ifndef INADDR_MULTICAST
 #define INADDR_MULTICAST	0xe0000000U
 #endif
+
+/* BSD <netinet/in.h> union of socket address types */
+union sockaddr_union {
+	struct sockaddr		su;
+	struct sockaddr_in	sin;
+	struct sockaddr_in6	sin6;
+};
 #endif