M2: live netfilter data path (pf_test per direction), pfattach bring-up, NET_LOCK reentrancy fix, static pfctl

- pfk_hooks: PRE→PF_IN, LOCAL_OUT/POST→PF_OUT v4+v6; replacement/buffer
  handling with NF_STOLEN + re-injection (documented divergence: re-entry)
- pfk_mod: pf_status_init/pfattach + pfi attach via pfk_if event callback
- pfk_kern: NET_LOCK holder reentrancy (fix deadlock when notifier fires
  under the write lock — observed as full-VM network hang)
- tools: static pfctl link for musl VMs

tests/confs/min.conf

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+# first M2 smoke: allow everything on lan/wan, block icmp to blackhole
+pass in quick on lan
+pass out quick
+block drop in quick proto icmp from any to 10.0.2.99